"There is a gay football player? Is he a good player? He is? Great! I like good football players! Move along."I couldn't agree more. It blows my mind how the media can make things that aren't an issue, an issue. I don't think this college football player's personal life has anything to do with his NFL draft dreams. Just like I don't think this Olympian's prior photo shoot has anything to do with her ability to ski ( Lebanese skier). We all know that is just how the media monster rolls.
However, I was LIVID when I read what his friend put as a follow-up comment:
"I know dude. This horse died many, many, many moons ago. Such a tired topic. Some folks are light years behind. It's alarming how indisputably dumb some humans are."Since no good comes from getting into a dispute with someone with differing opinions on Facebook, I brought my grievances here. If you don't agree with me, no problem. You can go rant on your own blog about me. But this one is mine, and since America mostly still allows free speech, I get to write what I want here.
Now, I could assume that this friend was referencing the media for their handling of the story, but I'm pretty sure that's not who he was insulting. I'm pretty sure he was insulting me and other evangelical Christians like me. I believe the Bible is true. I believe that God intended marriage to be between one man and one woman. And apparently, I am "indisputably dumb" for believing so.
Let me expand on a few of my other beliefs. I also believe that God didn't want women to be topless dancers. Or me to use the "f" word or the "n" word or any other offensive word in my daily vocabulary. I believe that God did not intend for us to watch pornography. Or gamble our money away on lottery tickets. And if, tomorrow, the government makes it legal to kick little old ladies crossing the street, I will teach my children that doing so is wrong, also. But nobody cares that I believe those things; it's just my belief in solely heterosexual marriages that suddenly turns me into a hateful, homophobic bigot.
I dare this friend or anyone to find a time when I have said an ugly word to a gay person. Or shunned neighbors that held different views from me. Or told my boys that we don't talk to "those kind" of people. I believe that the Bible teaches us to "love your neighbor as yourself" (Galatians 5:14) and not to "speak evil against one another" (James 4:11). And that is what our family tries to do each day.
So if literally believing that all of the Bible is true and being kind to others that believe differently than you is "indisputably dumb", then I guess get my dunce cap ready.
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